September 29, 2022
Neither in my life, I have ever imagined that I will have become a mother who will be called obsessive and extremely possessive by their children. Yes, my kid finally had a meltdown and he said so many mean things to me in that. The whole thing was triggered by a simple question from me. I asked him about one of his Facebook friends and jokingly said he seem like a girl or maybe his girlfriend disguised as a boy. The Facebook id was actively commenting on every post of the kid. He even sent a heart on my photo at which my boy was tagged. So I jokingly pinpoint his behavior and asked about the secret fan. I think that triggered the whole thing. So, ladies and general man, there was 20 minutes non-stop lecture, and in that he told me I am in his personal space and no one in his friend has their parents added on their social media accounts. He told me to be thankful that I not only know about my kid’s id but I am even added to it as well and not just as an acquaintance but a regular friend. As it was even in his control to hide everything from me and make me just a Facebook friend by name. The terms obsessive and overly intrusive and possessive about the kid got stuck in my mind. After saying everything without any filter of course he went to his room. But I sat there frozen for about an hour at least to accept what just happened at that time.
No doubt as a person working in the digital sector I know a thing or two about social media and instant messenger chat apps. Moreover, I am aware that how teenagers are using these platforms and how people take benefit of the innocent nature of the ten to harm them through these digital platforms. So I tried my best to be aware of all the online presence of my kids. I tried to do it in the coolest way possible so that they may not consider it any kind of intrusiveness or attack in their personal space but I guess I failed in it. Thus the thing about working on the mindset of the kid was a big mission but at that time first thing was to get access back to the digital platforms the kid. After that hot discussion, he practically blocked me from every single account. As I have mentioned earlier I know a thing or two about the digital world because of my nature of work so right at that moment I decided to get the parental control app TheOneSpy. The app offers all sorts of social media monitoring features to its user and one can Track Facebook, Snapchat, WhatsApp, and many other types of platforms secretly.
The first and basic feature I wanted in my parental control app was the ability to track the Facebook account of the kid. Well, guess what Now I was more curious to find out about the suspicious Facebook Id who was commenting and liking every post of my kid. TheOneSpy offers a Facebook monitoring feature that let the user know about all the Facebook activities of the target. It was the secret Id of my kid. He was using that id to share the artist’s side of his personality. As he was shy so he decided to use the fake account for this purpose. My question appeared as an investigation to him and it triggered in a bad way as he thought I will know about his lie so he overreacted.Another best thing about using TheOneSpy to track the Facebook account of the kid is that it not only reports about the post, stories, and other account information but also gives access to the messenger app as well. That simply means you can know about the private chat box histories like who is sending them messages if they are being bullied or harassed by anyone in the message chat and more. You can even recover the deleted content as well as the TheOneSpy saves the deleted chat history detail in its original form for the user.